I Refuse to Lead a Dying Church – Part ONE

July 30, 2008 by alycebethany

I Refuse to Lead a Dying Church          Part One:

Choosing Life over Death:

19-JUL-08

Study and prayer group attendees:

Marilyn Ibey                 Will Brown                   Hulen Brown                LeLynne Koch

Alie Baldridge               Alyce Downer              Jack Downer                Irene Baldridge

Bill Burns                      Lyle Hawthorne           Florence Burns             Barbara Hawthorne

 

The place in your life where you most profoundly see and experience the sheer joy and wonder of LIFE?

The Ah-Ha moments. – when a child really gets it.

Listening to others in a local coffee shop

Volunteer activities – CAMs (see the joys and the sorrows)

Youth blossom at church camp.

When college students introduce graduating seniors to their campus

Carrying a girl with a broken leg – bonding

PEACE – watching birds and other animals – leaves on a tree – makes one appreciate LIFE

Sitting in the old church listening to Rev. Ray Magert – messages from ministries are very special and meaningful

Looking at the Stars – sometimes seem close enough to touch.  Crimson sky at sun set in the Carolinas – These are very special moments and definitely gifts from God.

Early in the morning before the sun rises – special moments for a very special time with God.

Retirement when one feels free and can do whatever one chooses to do.

Glorious rainbows from the heavens and God

 

The members of the study group made a commitment to pray for the other members of the group.

 

Special prayer request – for Steve who is at Methodist hospital.  He is 40+ has 3 children and his wife has cancer.  He lost his job and now has problems with his esophagus and lung problems.  He has used nearly all of his money and needs lots of prayer and compassion.

 

Peter & John – were asked for alms for the blind.  They responded that they would give them Jesus.  Open your eyes.  We need to practice the presence of Jesus Christ.  The living, loving Christ is right here with us!  Be Strong in Christ!.  Draw out the positives, Practice the presence of Christ in the presence of other people.  Get past the despair – Being ALIVE – Loving and Living in Christ.  It’s more, More, MORE.

 

Remember the explanation of the Apostolic Leader?  Look for the Bright Eyes around us and around our church. 

Apostolic Leaders have had an experience of the Risen Christ.

Has friends and others on the edge of church circles (CAMs is an example)

Has a clear simple sense of mission.

Passionate that we offer Christ for the renewal of lives and communities.

Aware that we are sent to the NOW to serve the Lord!

Is determined to put the church into new places and new people.

Will not accept the humdrum of Church as usual.

 

We need to live out the practicing of Christ – allow Christ to be in our lives

 

Many felt that they experienced a Loving – Living moment during the Wednesday evening discussion of building and re-bulding homes for seniors when Frank De La Cruz came into the church.  He was welcomed as a brother not a stranger.  We need to speak out for God – Love abodes in us.

 

Choosing Life over Death – Death is the opposite of Christ.  Christians may be viewed as a melting pot but the analogy was also described as a salad bowl – we had greens, tomatoes, onions, peppers, all kinds of different bits and pieces that make up the salad.  We also are all parts of the Body of Christ.  We each compliment each other.  Same unity – Same spirit

 

We have started on the Right Path.  Started on the path for a new future for Bethany UCC.  We each bring something – a part of us.  Examine what each of you can bring.  How can you use it for God’s work.

 

Change – We Refuse to Lead a Dying Church.  The boat can not sink – it needs to go in another way – another direction.  The Christ within each of us brings the unity that we need.  The Spirit is here with our congregation.  We have many Bright Eyes in our church.  We all need to encourage the Bright Eyes.  We need to visit others – we are giving LIFE – Christ to others.  We bring life and give life to others.  Analogy – When we give a pint of blood, we give life.  Eight weeks later we can give more blood and give more life.  Giving love and giving life.

 

We feel that a drum roll is happening – something is about to happen.

 

Words for thought.  Prayerless pews make for a powerless pulpit.  Pray for our paster and pray for our study group.

What kind of needs are in the neighborhood of the church?  Mom’s day out? Bible Study?  The challenge was made for more folks to participate in the Bible study that we already have.

 

Interesting thought.  When it is said, “Speak my Word.”  What version are we thinking? King James, the Message.  Each has it’s own way of sharing the word.  Within the church, we give Glory and Excitement – Moving out as a unified church

A pond that sits still gets stagnant.  A rive flows and impacts others in a positive way.  We need to turn the pond into a flowing ROARING river.

 

We should affirm what God means to each of us.  Love, Life, Excitement, God is Great – worthy of being praised.

 

God’s call keeps coming to us.  God is still speaking.  WE need moments of Love.  Be Patient – allow it to happen. 

 

NEXT MEETING        7:00pm             02-AUG-08:

Home of Al & Irene Baldridge

6004 Rue Sophie

San Antonio

Home phone     684-6826

Work phone      523-1206

Cell phone        386-0569

 

I Refuse to Lead a Dying Church – intro session

July 30, 2008 by alycebethany

I Refuse to Lead a Dying Church.

 

This is a repeat from the notes that I sent out last week.  Just testing this.  I will post the notes from last Saturday’s session later.

 

19-JUL-08  at the home of Rev Bill & Florence Burns          7:00pm

 

Our Introductory Session

 

We broke into small groups and each discussed:

 

1.) How did you become a practicing Christian?

            How did you come to this church, of all the churches on planet earth?

            Why have you stuck around?

 

2.) If you had one wish for our church what would it be?

If you had one wish for the larger community in which our church is located, what would it be?

 

We gathered together again and compared thoughts, sharing those with the rest of the group.

 

Scripture Foundation                Acts 2:42-47 & 3:1-10

                                   

Fellowship of the Believers:

Comments:

They sold their possessions and shared them with others.  They had prayer together , fellowship together.  Comments – we should give a hand-up – not a hand down.  Then we will be on the same level as those we are trying to help.  In all, we should give credit to Jesus.

 

Suggestions – Need an evangelism committee at our church and get training for them – these could be lay persons.  In the spirit amazing things come together.

 

Six vital choices

Choosing life over death

Choosing community over isolation

Choosing fun over drudgery

Choosing bold over mild

Choosing frontier over fortress

Choosing now rather than later

 

These are the themes from the six chapters ahead of us in the book.

We discussed apostolic leaders and the characteristics that identify apostolic leaders.

The questions were asked.  Do you see signs of any of these characteristics in our church?  Which characteristic do you wish was more descriptive of our church?  How might that change?

 

All study participants contributed to the closing prayer by listing an item or two prayer topics.  We wrote them down and them passed the sheets around and each participant read some of the prayer lists.

·Desire to list the things that our church does well and develop a plan to do them better.

·Prayer for God to show us what His plan for our lives are.

·Pray for guidance and received strength to find ways to better serve the needs of God’s people in  the community – youth and elderly alike in our church.

·Desire for senior rehabilitation projects

·Be filled and overflowing with God’s spirit

·Be open and welcoming

·United in action and excited about ministry

·Listen to God as we study together

·Each can find a way to serve

·Nurture children

·Clarify problems and find solutions for them

·Faith, Gratitude, Loving thy neighbor need to be ACTION words

 

Next gathering will be on 26-JUL-08 at 7:00pm

Jack & Alyce Downer’s home

5906 Woodridge Park

 

home phone      210-463-9600

Jack’s cell         210-563-1273

Alyce’s cell       210-563-1272

 

Study – Choosing Life Over Death

Read pp. 27-36

 

Where do I really get to touch the magic and sparkle of LIFE?

 

Deuteronomy 30:11-20

Joshua 24:14-15

Matthew 22:34-40

John 13:31-35

The first post!

July 27, 2008 by bethanyucc

Welcome to the Bethany Congregational UCC blog. Alyce’s summaries will be available soon.

Stan